Sunday, October 26, 2008

What's in a name?

Romeo Montague and Juliet Capulet meet and fall in love in Shakespeare's lyrical tale of "star-cross'd" lovers. They are doomed from the start as members of two warring families. Here Juliet tells Romeo that a name is an artificial and meaningless convention, and that she loves the person who is called "Montague", not the Montague name and not the Montague family. Romeo, out of his passion for Juliet, rejects his family name and vows, as Juliet asks, to "deny (his) father" and instead be "new baptized" as Juliet's lover. This one short line encapsulates the central struggle and tragedy of the play.

Cuplikan di atas menunjukkan betapa nama/nama keluarga cuma artifisial dan tidak berarti apa-apa buat mereka. Benarkah demikian?

Dibawah ini menunjukkan betapa nama/nama keluarga menjadi demikian penting dan sangat berarti buat setiap orang. Bisa dari pendekatan negatif dan positif.

Kita ketahui bersama bagaimana dalam kampanye pemilu Amerika, Barrack Obama dibuat sulit dengan nama tengahnya yang berbunyi ”Hussein” sehingga diplesetkan dia berasal dari Arab dan ada hubungan dekat dengan Sadam Hussein.

Setelah kejadian 911, betapa sulitnya orang-orang yang bernama ke-Araban (saya sengaja tidak menulis muslim, karena di Irak banyak warga non-muslim yang namanya beridentitas Arab) untuk berkunjung ke Amerika.

Nama keluarga menunjukkan keterkaitan mereka dengan nenek moyang/ identitas asal usul historis keluarga. Di Indonesia dan dunia umumnya penamaan seorang anak menjadi demikian penting hingga diperlukan persiapan luar biasa untuk bisa didapatkan nama anak yang bagus dan dibalik nama adalah ”doa”, dengan maksud agar sesuai dengan harapan orang tua kelak .

Buat daerah yang menganut patriakat biasanya menurunkan nama orang tua laki-laki kepada anak laki-lakinya dan juga terkadang kepada anak perempuannya sampai dia bersuami untuk memakai marga dari si suami. Ini bisa kita lihat pada kawan-kawan kita dari Suku Batak, Ambon, Menado dsb.

Suku Jawa dan Sunda tidak menurunkan nama marga Bapak kepada anak-anak lelakinya maupun ke anak perempuannya. Kalaupun ada yang memakai nama Bapaknya itu lebih kepada kebutuhan keterkaitan kepada orang tua ”yang sudah terkenal” untuk alasan-alasan tertentu.

Suku Minang(kabau) menganut matriakat sehingga nama suku diturunkan kepada anak-anak laki-laki dari suku ibunya dan dari ayah diturunkan gelarnya (sulit buat saya menjelaskan tentang maksud dari ”gelar” ini). Apakah menunjukkan derajat kebangsawanan atau apa?

Dalam menamakan anak, keluarga dari suku Minang ini boleh di bilang tidak ada pakem nya, apakah ini menunjukkan betapa ’urang awak” tidak terlalu mempermasalahkan ”sakral” nya penamaan seorang anak atau lebih kepada praktisnya saja. Buktinya banyak nama-nama ”urang awak”  yang sangat beragam hingga sulit di terka asalnya,  kalau tidak percaya check saja nama-nama di FB ini.

Contohnya ya saya sendiri lahir dan dibesarkan di Jakarta dan kedua orang tua asli dari Paris (Pariaman sekitarnya dan bersuku Chaniago bergelar Sutan) diberi nama Danil = God is my judge dan Hadi = nama orang Jawa pada umumnya dan sayapun tidak tahu artinya. Dalam beberapa literatur Al-Hadi itu adalah anak tertuanya Al-Mahdi.

Contoh berikutnya kawan saya yang asli Sum-Bar dan muslim bernama Christian N (saya tidak tulis penuh, karena belum minta izin). Nama akhirnya sangat kental Minang-nya. Dia sangat kerepotan dengan namanya karena kebetulan tidak sesuai dengan keyakinannya.

Bersyukur saya diberikan nama dengan 2 (dua) kata saja, saya tidak habis pikir buat kawan-kawan saya yang diberikan nama yang sangat panjang ada yang sampai 6 (enam) kata bahkan lebih. Betapa sulitnya mereka pada saat menuliskan namanya.

Selamat buat kawan-kawan asal Minang yang sudah mendapatkan identitas dari awal atas ke-Minangannya, bagi yang belum (masih krisis identitas) silahkan tambah gelar di depannya atau suku di belakang namanya....kalau berkenan tentunya.

From now on may I introduce my name:  Danil Hadi Chaniago....., gelar Sutan…! Keren kan…?

What's in a name?

 

Memulai bisnis apa ya kira2...?

Pada Rab, 15/10/08, Deni Danasenjaya <denids1@yahoo.com> menulis:
Dari: Deni Danasenjaya <denids1@yahoo.com>
Topik: [agromania] Memulai bisnis apa ya kira2...
Kepada: agromania@yahoogroups.com
Tanggal: Rabu, 15 Oktober, 2008, 6:14 AM

Dear all....
Saya saat ini bekerja sbg professional, agrobisnis adalah salahsatu 
minat saya karena orangtua & kakek juga dulu petani, cuma saya masih 
bingung kira2 peluang bisnis apa yang saya bisa di sambi saat ini?, 
pernah nyoba langsung terjun wirausaha tapi hasilnya malah jemblok, 
bukannya bisnis yang berkembang tapi tabungan yang dijadikan modal 
yang hilang, mana saat itu baru kena PHK pasca krismon lagi, trus 
terulang lagi sekitar 2 tahun yang lalu & kembali tabungan saya yang 
dijadikan modal hilang. 
Dari situ semangat wirausaha menyurut karena traumatik, walau ada 
teman yang memberi tahu mungkin saya salah membina networking yang 
tepat, lalu secara teknis saya pikir say aini gak pinter marketing & 
negosiasi dan modalnya juga pas2an (maklum pegawai tabungannya 
dikit).
Keahlian saya cuma me-manaje proses operasional organisasi di 
tempat saya bekerja, sesuatu yang gak bisa dijadikan bisnis kalo yang 
begini sptnya...

Mohon pencerahannya nih dari rekan2...

Wassalam

Kang Deni

 

Pada Sel, 21/10/08, D. Hadi <energimania@gmail.com> menulis:

Dari: D. Hadi <energimania@gmail.com>
Topik: Re: Bls: [agromania] Memulai bisnis apa ya kira2...
Kepada: 
agromania@yahoogroups.com
Tanggal: Selasa, 21 Oktober, 2008, 6:53 PM


Bung Deni:
Setelah membaca tulisan anda dibawah ini kurang lebih garis besar isinya.
Anda seorang profesional dan masih bekerja

  •   Minat agrobisnis
  • Pernah 2 kali merugi dalam wirausaha (usaha apa?)
  • Modal kecil
  • Keahlian di bidang proses manajemen operasional organisasi/perusaha an 
  • Pertanyaan: memulai bisnis apa ya kira-kira... ?

Anda sudah mempunyai modal utama untuk memulai usaha yaitu MINAT kebetulan di bidang agrobisnis. Sebagai seorang profesional dan masih bekerja artinya punya sumber dana (source of fund). Anda juga punya modal pengalaman yaitu pernah 2 x merugi (bukankah kegagalan adalah sukses yang tertunda?). Mempunyai keahlian dibidang manajemen operasional organisasi/perusahaan.

Jadi menurut saya, anda sudah memiliki cukup modal.
Karena di email anda tidak menyebutkan di usaha apa anda gagal, saya hanya bisa berasumsi positif saja bahwa usaha tersebut di bidang agrobisnis dan menggunakan modal cukup besar yang meyebabkan anda menjadi trauma atas kegagalan (sampai jeblok, kalau rugi sedikit jarang orang sampai trauma).

Untuk menjawab "memulai bisnis apa (lagi) ya kira-kira... " menurut saya
sebagai berikut:
Dari pengalaman saya (belum teruji secara ilmiah)

  • Mulailah dengan yang anda sukai/minati (hobbie) dan lebih bagus lagi sesuai dengan keahlian anda. Persis seperti teori minat dan bakat dalam seseorang memilih jurusan di sekolah atau perguruan tinggi.
  • Mulailah dengan modal kecil (maksimum menghabiskan 20% dari tabungan anda). Atau 20% dari penghasilan anda per bulan dengan asumsi anda tidak sedang mencicil KPR saat ini.
  • Namanya saja wirausaha, jadi jangan mulai usaha dengan berpartner/bermitra , karena anda sedang mulai usaha kemungkinan konflik dengan partner dalam mengambil keputusan selalu ada. Bermitra hanya  dilakukan kalau anda sudah menguasai A sampai Z dari usaha tersebut.
  • Usaha itu ada siklusnya, jadi jangan berhenti sampai 2 atau 3 kali siklus usaha (kebanyakan orang begitu gagal terus berhenti tanpa mau menganalisis penyebab kegagalannya) .

Dibawah ini saya sampaikan bagaimana memulai usaha sendiri yang sudah baku dan teruji secara ilmiah:

  • Pilih atau ciptakan ide bisnis (business ideas)
  • Buat rencana bisnis nya (business plan)
  • Sumber keuangan (financing)
  • Pilih bentuk usaha nya; (karena mandiri biasanya cv). Kalau kecil sekaliusahanya ya diabaikan saja.
  • Memulai usaha; ini adalah yang terpenting karena uang akan masuk dikarenakan uang anda juga akan keluar untuk dibelanjakan. Di mana lokasi usaha tersebut (rumah sendiri atau sewa tempat). Karena anda bekerja, mungkin perlu karyawan/buruh dsb.

Mudah-mudahan bisa memberikan pencerahan seperti yang diinginkan.

Salam,
D. Hadi

Sunday, October 12, 2008

How to Make a Million

These 7 industries hold seven-figure potential. Find out how to get started in each one--and take one step closer to a richer life.

Wine

One industry that's ripe for the picking is wine. You'll find opportunities in everything from wine bars to wine tastings to the wine aftermarket. And depending on your particular interests, there's a wide range of positions, from making wine to distributing it to selling it. Thanks to consumers' growing interest in more sophisticated foods and beverages, higher-end wines in particular are growing, says Mike Fisher, a partner with Global Wine Partners LLC, which provides business and financial advisory services for the wine industry. Consequently, Fisher predicts this segment will be trending upward for the long term.

However, the wine industry can be intimidating. Competition can be stiff and startup costs steep, but that's not to say such obstacles are insurmountable or unavoidable. "In this industry, there is a tremendous amount of entrepreneurship, and with that creativity comes an opportunity that doesn't necessarily involve a great deal of startup costs," says Michael Green, 44, who's proof that the industry can accommodate all types of entrepreneurs.

Green's appreciation for wine started at the age of 6, when he would accompany his father to the wine store. As a co-founder of Best Cellars, a wine retail store, and a wine and spirits consultant for Gourmet magazine, Green has built a lifetime of experience. A decade ago, his expertise fully matured when he took the natural next step and launched Liquid Assets Consulting Group, an experiential marketing and consulting group centered on wine and food. Since then, Green has nurtured New York City-based Liquid Assets to a projected $1.4 million in sales this year.

College Planning

At one time, applying for college was simply the first step in getting a higher education. Now it's a competitive process that has given birth to a whole industry aimed at preparing and positioning students for college. According to the National Center for Education Statistics, by 2013 college enrollment is projected to increase by 9 percent to 19.7 million students. Meanwhile, the American School Counselor Association reports that the national average ratio of students to counselors is only 476 to 1.

Indeed, the college application and admission process has morphed into a science, offering entrepreneurs with substantial knowledge of the industry unique opportunities to capitalize on their expertise--and incentivizing those who don't yet possess the know-how to hit the books.

"There will be more than 3 million [students] graduating from high school next year," says Katherine Cohen, founder of IvyWise, a decade-old educational consulting company that provides comprehensive admissions counseling services. It's projected to be the largest graduating class in the history of the country, so demand is greater than ever for Cohen's New York City-based business, which employs 10 counselors and serves about 250 clients in 27 states and 17 countries a year.

The IvyWise brand is strong, but that's largely a result of the solid foundation on which it was built. Cohen had read applications for Yale College, taught SAT prep classes and obtained a certificate in college counseling from UCLA before venturing out on her own with IvyWise. And while sales are impressive--a projected $1.5 million this year--she's had to maintain a high level of quality control to hit that mark. Shortly after launching the business, Cohen recorded her methodology into a manual, and about three years ago, she brought in business advisor, Liz Hamburg (who is also the "Launch Pad" columnist for Entrepreneur's StartUps), to implement systems that were crucial for moving forward.

Earlier this year, Cohen and Hamburg launched ApplyWise, a sister company that exists solely online. "We're able to leverage the experience and feedback we've gotten with one-on-one clients and translate it into a much more scalable, robust version that's applicable to people all over the world," says Hamburg, who expects sales for ApplyWise to reach about $400,000 this year.

Ready to put your skills to the test? Then be sure you know your stuff. "Really take the time to study the universities," advises Steven Roy Goodman, author of College Admissions Together and an expert for College Parents of America, an association dedicated to advocating for and serving on behalf of parents of college students. "While it seems like Harvard and Stanford are a lot alike, they're actually quite different, and it's important to understand the subtleties among the schools. Do your homework and spend time on research, because it's research that makes all the difference."

Staffing

If you're a people person and don't mind being caught in the middle, the staffing industry might be the perfect fit. Richard Wahlquist, president and CEO of the American Staffing Association, reports that about 3 million people go to work every day thanks to staffing companies. "The Bureau of Labor Statistics predicts that the employment services industry will add 691,500 new jobs by 2016. That's close to 20 percent growth over the period they're measuring, and it's about twice as fast as the projections for employment growth overall," says Wahlquist, adding that employment services is projected to be the second-fastest-growing industry as measured by new jobs created.

But the power behind staffing is far from secret, and many players have already cast their nets. Therefore, the best way to establish your business is to carve out your own niche. If you've worked as an accountant, attorney or paralegal, chances are you already have a good network of contacts from which to launch your business, so specializing in those niches will put you ahead of the game. Otherwise, the segments with the most promise, according to Wahlquist, are engineering, IT, legal support, accounting, finance and all the disciplines within health care. Wahlquist also recommends providing search and placement services and partnering with businesses to assist with their short-term and long-term projects and temporary and permanent talent.

Jill Ater, 45, Jodi Olin, 49, Liz Norwood, 45, and Heidi Crum, 37, have specialized in part-time placement since 2003. They are the founders of 10 til 2, a staffing company based in Denver that earns more than $1 million in annual franchisor sales. "As we study the trends of employees going forward, people are looking more and more for alternative work/life balance opportunities," says Olin. "Studies show that some of the newer members of the work force are looking for work hours that fit for them. They want to have the ability to play a little bit, and they want the ability to work from home. Telecommuting is huge, and the whole idea of flexibility with their business world is very, very important."

In 2006, in response to numerous requests to expand the business, the four founders decided to franchise the concept. Aware of their limitations, they hired a franchise specialist to work out the kinks and outsourced the task of developing a proprietary database. Today, they have safely secured their niche and expect to have 30 franchises sold by the end of this year.

Interested in putting people to work? Begin today by registering for Staffing World, the American Staffing Association's annual convention taking place at the end of this month (October 22 through October 25) in San Diego. Make sure to also visit ASA's website at staffingtoday.net to educate yourself about employment and labor law, which are the basics for succeeding in the industry.

 

Senior Care

Age might be more than just a number, but when it comes to understanding the potential of the senior-care industry, the numbers say it all. According to the National Institute on Aging, an organization whose mission is to understand the nature of aging and extend the active years of life, approximately 35 million Americans are age 65 or older, and that number is expected to double in the next 25 years. In addition, people age 85 and older constitute the fastest-growing segment of the U.S. population. About 4 million people are currently in this age group, and that number is expected to grow to 19 million by 2050.

With the average life expectancy longer than ever and more Americans expressing the desire to age at home, the need for in-home assistance is thriving. "This is about demographics, and we can only take credit for being at the right place at the right time," says Leo Landaverde, 37, a former vice president at a staffing company who opened a ComForcare Senior Services franchise with his wife, Sandra, 38, in North Hills, California. Since opening in 2003, they have already built their system up to more than 250 employees, serving about 500 clients. They were also the recipients of ComForcare's 2007 Franchise of the Year Award and currently operate the largest ComForcare franchise in the country. Sales are growing, too, with a 2008 projected increase of 15 percent over last year's $3 million.

The franchise gave the Landaverdes a helping hand and the freedom to implement new ideas, which has helped them grow their business exponentially. Always looking to expand their services, Leo and Sandra regularly research and introduce new services, such as giving veterans the resources to take advantage of the Veterans Administration Aid and Attendance Benefits program, as well as offering care for children with disabilities.

If senior care appeals to you, keep your finger on the pulse of the industry. The sector has already begun to evolve with wider use of technology, specifically for monitoring and communication purposes, says Merrily Orsini, founder of senior-care management company ElderCare Solutions and managing director at Corecubed, an integrated marketing communications agency that tailors many of its products to helping private-duty agencies succeed.

A lack of adequate staff members has many looking to technology to supplement care, says Orsini, whether it's developing web-based programs (Lotsa Helping Hands helps family and friends schedule care) or specializing in in-home adaptations to reduce the hours of care required. (National Association of Home Builders recently introduced a Certified Aging-In-Place Specialist designation program.) "Pay attention to what the customer is requesting, and look for niche needs that currently aren't being met," says Orsini, who also sees opportunities in creating planned retirement communities. "It's important to understand that this burgeoning demographic bulge just now beginning will change the landscape of the industry incredibly, and solutions that haven't yet been imagined will be in place in the next 10 years."

Children's Services

The economy can plummet and gas prices can skyrocket, but one thing remains constant: Kid-focused businesses are continuing to grow. Even as purse strings tighten, spending on kids--from their tutoring to their art classes--remains generous. "Parents will scrimp on items for themselves to get the best for their children," says Jennifer Ferguson, consumer insights and research director at Creative Consumer Concepts, an integrated, kid-focused brand marketing agency. Ferguson also notes that the market is being fueled by doting grandparents who have become increasingly involved in their grandchildren's lives.

Child enrichment and child fitness businesses in particular are enjoying healthy bottom lines. Having tapped into both segments, Albert Diaz, 49, and his wife, Maria Fernanda Diaz, 40, are perfectly positioned to ride the wave. In 2003, they opened a FasTracKids franchise, which offers a specialized curriculum in 12 subjects. They were so encouraged by the success they experienced with educational enrichment that they shifted their focus to physical enrichment. Two years ago, they introduced their Rye Brook, New York, community to JW Tumbles, a children's gym specializing in physical development. Because of the well-tested programs already put in place by the franchisor, the couple has been able to open two additional JW Tumbles locations and expects sales for the three locations to reach $1.5 million this year.

But as tempting as it might be to buy a franchise and wait for parents to show you the money, don't think of the industry as child's play. The Diazes are successful because they're completely hands-on in their business. Not only do they make sure their clients enjoy the experience from start to finish, but they also make it a top priority to learn names and keep the facilities spotless--and they train their employees to uphold the same business practices. Says Albert, "People will try something once, but what's going to keep them coming back is the whole experience."

And if you want your business to stand the test of time, make sure you're sufficiently capitalized to get through the growing pains. With the average JW Tumbles location measuring in at about 2,500 square feet, Albert estimates that startup costs for the franchise range anywhere from $150,000 to $225,000, and he recommends having an additional $50,000 in working capital to handle the first year. What are the trends in kids' businesses? Kids increasingly want to have a positive impact on the world and the environment, so businesses that can empower kids might enjoy broad appeal, says Ferguson.

And don't forget about moms. "This is the first time we have had four generations of women becoming mothers at the same time," says Ferguson. "Tap into a mom's desire to be a good mom with a product that works for kids and the whole family."

Pets

In homes across the U.S., animals of all shapes and sizes get the red carpet treatment. Americans are obsessed with their pets: The American Pet Products Association, or APPA, estimates that Americans will spend a whopping $43.4 billion on their furry companions just this year.

So why the craze? Baby boomers, whose children are leaving home, and young professionals, who are prioritizing their careers over raising children, have voids to fill, says Bob Vetere, president of APPA. "Because they're looking to pets to fill a human-type void, they are humanizing the pets," he says. "With that comes the desire to reward pets in human terms rather than pet terms. This broadens the opportunities for higher-priced goods and services."

Brennan Johnson and Jennifer Melton, who have backgrounds in marketing and structural engineering, respectively, accidentally discovered the industry's potential when Melton started making homemade treats for their newly adopted puppy that suffered from food allergies. The creations caused a sensation at their local animal shelter's bake sales, inspiring the husband-and-wife duo to officially launch Cloud Star, a manufacturer of natural pet products, in 1999. Two years later, their San Luis Obispo, California, business had already hit $1.5 million in sales, and it's projected to reach more than $5 million in sales this year. Their products, which range from dog biscuits to shampoos and conditioners, are available at health-food stores, pet supply stores, grocery stores and gift stores across the country. And the company has been growing an average of 35 percent per year.

With nearly a decade of success behind them, Melton and Johnson, both 34, have mastered the industry and have plenty of tips to share. Working full time at their day jobs for the first year and a half was crucial to their success. "When you're selling a product, it's critical that that money goes back into the company for expansion and shipping and other expenses of running a business," says Melton. "We always had an outside income until we got to the point where we could pay ourselves from Cloud Star." They've also seen countless entrepreneurs at trade shows who, after seeing interest from retailers, either couldn't deliver on the promised product or couldn't ship the order promptly enough.

You must also deliver a unique product to the market and stay true to your values and ethics, says Johnson. Cloud Star uses recyclable packaging, soy-based inks and skylights in its warehouse. The company also foregoes byproducts for all-natural ones and manufactures everything in the U.S., using American products.

Happy pets mean continued profits. Vetere predicts that high-tech products such as timed feeders and automatic litter box cleaners will continue to appeal to consumers. In addition, Vetere says, pet owners will continue to take a liking to pet clothing and specialized treats as well as services that allow them to maintain flexible lives, including pet-sitting, pet walking and pet-waste removal.

Green

Across all industries and all generations, a single word has people talking and taking action: green. These days, if you're doing good for the environment, consumers want to do good by you and show you another kind of green. According to a survey conducted last year by Cohn & Wolfe, Landor Associates, and Penn, Schoen & Berland Associates, consumers expected to double their spending on green products and services in 2008 to reach an estimated $500 billion annually. The survey also discovered that consumers' perceptions about green living have evolved and that they now perceive it as a direct and positive reflection of their social status in addition to recognizing its broader value to society and the world.

For husband-and-wife entrepreneurs Satoko Asai and Mohamed Elgayar, the first clear sign that organic had gone mainstream came when their baby clothing business, Sckoon Organics, was featured on the cover of American Baby earlier this year. The green movement has boosted the company's sales projections to about $3 million this year, but for Asai and Elgayar, who started their business in 2003 before green was really big, their success has also come from their decision to add color and style to organic cotton at a time when the word organic was often equated with plain, oatmeal-colored fabrics.

Their overwhelming success also has to do with how the pair maximized the potential of the internet, using their website, sckoon.com, not only as a tool to educate consumers about organics, but also as a distribution channel to grow their Hampton Bays, New York, company into a global brand. Launching their site in both English and Japanese and offering Japanese consumers the option to buy in yen made their brand easily accessible. They're also constantly innovating: They launched a pet clothing line last year and baby bedding just this month. "You have to stand out," says Elgayar, 46. "You can't stand out presenting the same old stuff that's in the market. You have to come up with something and believe in it and go for it."

They currently sell to 560 stores--baby boutiques, eco-stores and health stores in 22 countries--and will open distribution centers in Japan and the United Kingdom by the end of this year. "The pie is getting bigger," says Asai, 44. "But our aim has been the global market from the beginning."

Dari: entrepreneur.com

by Sara Wilson
Friday, October 10, 2008

10 more possible reasons you aren't rich

Mungkin kita sudah terlambat, tapi tidak buat anak-cucu kita.

Here are 10 more possible reasons you aren't rich:

1. You care what your car looks like: A car is a means of transportation to get from one place to another, but many people don't view it that way. Instead, they consider it a reflection of themselves and spend money every two years or so to impress others instead of driving the car for its entire useful life and investing the money saved.

2. You feel entitlement: If you believe you deserve to live a certain lifestyle, have certain things and spend a certain amount before you have earned to live that way, you will have to borrow money. That large chunk of debt will keep you from building wealth.

3. You lack diversification: There is a reason one of the oldest pieces of financial advice is to not keep all your eggs in a single basket. Having a diversified investment portfolio makes it much less likely that wealth will suddenly disappear.

4. You started too late: The magic of compound interest works best over long periods of time. If you find you're always saying there will be time to save and invest in a couple more years, you'll wake up one day to find retirement is just around the corner and there is still nothing in your retirement account.

5. You don't do what you enjoy: While your job doesn't necessarily need to be your dream job, you need to enjoy it. If you choose a job you don't like just for the money, you'll likely spend all that extra cash trying to relieve the stress of doing work you hate.

6. You don't like to learn: You may have assumed that once you graduated from college, there was no need to study or learn. That attitude might be enough to get you your first job or keep you employed, but it will never make you rich. A willingness to learn to improve your career and finances are essential if you want to eventually become wealthy.

7. You buy things you don't use: Take a look around your house, in the closets, basement, attic and garage and see if there are a lot of things you haven't used in the past year. If there are, chances are that all those things you purchased were wasted money that could have been used to increase your net worth.

8. You don't understand value: You buy things for any number of reasons besides the value that the purchase brings to you. This is not limited to those who feel the need to buy the most expensive items, but can also apply to those who always purchase the cheapest goods. Rarely are either the best value, and it's only when you learn to purchase good value that you have money left over to invest for your future.

9. Your house is too big: When you buy a house that is bigger than you can afford or need, you end up spending extra money on longer debt payments, increased taxes, higher upkeep and more things to fill it. Some people will try to argue that the increased value of the house makes it a good investment, but the truth is that unless you are willing to downgrade your living standards, which most people are not, it will never be a liquid asset or money that you can ever use and enjoy.

10. You fail to take advantage of opportunities: There has probably been more than one occasion where you heard about someone who has made it big and thought to yourself, "I could have thought of that." There are plenty of opportunities if you have the will and determination to keep your eyes open.

Dari: TheStreet.Com.